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Re: Why guys look at porn

wanttherealdeal — Wed, 16 Nov 2011 11:15:42 -0000

What alot of people don't realize there are a lot of human trafficing going on. And if they do know that they are pretending its not real. Well it is real. Alot of boys and girls are made to produce these images by their captures. And someone at my age thinks...dang...my husband is enjoying pictures of women his daughters age. Now to me that is SICK...real close to pedifile when it comes to looking a women either of age or not of age. Who is to know? The men enjoy it.....that's the bottom line. And if they think it does not effect their marriage, they are WRONG. What woman out there want is to feel she is the ONLY ONE her husband wants to see. It hurts, it really hurts.

Re: Why guys look at porn

wanttherealdeal — Wed, 16 Nov 2011 11:02:18 -0000

I have dealt with this type of pornography for over 35yrs. I have a good husband but his need to see this stuff on his cell phone hurts me to the core. Everything always gets turned around in the discussion of it, and I end up allowing myself to feel at fault. I give him what he wants, and yes for the most part I have learned men are all about their needs. I have had great sex with him, but I could not begin to count how many times I have had sex with him and never been kissed. I do feel poronography is cheating. At that moment and at that time they are looking at it, they are enjoying what they see. I can not compete with any of them. And never will. I work hard, 2 jobs, we raised children together who have long since grown and gone and now since we are older this area has made my end less satisfying. Ok...I say were older I understand, then I look at his phone and see what he likes to see and my heart is crushed. No one can tell me he does not prefer what he sees to what he sees in his wife. Are we just a "live" form of release? It hurts to the core.

What ever happened in this world to make the simple statement of "What is right is right and what is wrong is wrong?"

Do I ever think this will change, probably not. He has said to me, you will probably go to your grave never realizing just how much I love you. Sad to say, but he is probably right.

Re: Why guys look at porn

wanttherealdeal — Wed, 16 Nov 2011 10:49:09 -0000

What ever happened in this world to make the simple statement of "What is right is right and what is wrong is wrong?"

Do I ever think this will change, probably not. He has said to me, you will probably go to your grave never realizing just how much I love you. Sad to say, but he is probably right.

Re: Why guys look at porn

shuturface33 — Tue, 15 Nov 2011 09:34:58 -0000

I literally want to punch the MAN who wrote this article in the dick, seriously.......did you really just compare watching porn to watching sports....WTF !?!?!?!?!
It is NOT normal, do I know my hubby spanks it, yes, Im 100% ok with this(in moderation, which he does), do we have great sex, yes....but when men just look at ump-teen sites just to "look" at them with no intention of getting off, I DO have a problem with that....its weird and very much OBSESSIVE BEHAVIOR, which is never good!!!
AND, to say we(women) either accept it or "embrace" it ?????? Have you lost your fu**ing mind dude......the next time you have sex with a "woman" (I put that in quotes because any "female" that had sex with YOU is not a woman, she is just crazy)
How about she staples a cut out of a much sexier and hotter man to your face....how would that feel (both literally AND emotionally)
ps....Your a douchebag :)

Re: Why guys look at porn

Maika K — Sun, 07 Aug 2011 22:30:39 -0000

I have found out recently that my husband is looking at porn. I was very hurt and I am ready to leave. It is funny how a man can defend his actions so vehemtly without the consideration of how it will and does effect marriage and relationship. I know pornography is wrong , it places a view upon women soley as a sexual tool used for mens gratification. Can you men not realize that sexuality has been so desentized that you have been able to use your own sexual urges as an excuse to violate your wives, and girlfriends emotionally. You breach the trust that needs to be present in a healthy relationship. Then you use that same sad ass excuse that everyone does it and that men are just wired that way. BULLSHIT!!!! It is a selfish act that destroys the women that love you. Remember that when you are looking at that crap, it's not real, it is all a lie and those women are people too, who without the make up , lighting and fake boobs are everyday people who are probably in that postion because they are hurting and lost. And maybe some selfish jackass used them , or molested them all because they wanted sexual gratification just like you!!!!!!!

Re: Why guys look at porn

4morales — Sun, 17 Jul 2011 20:24:09 -0000

say what you men want... believe what you want... but if the tables were turned your ego would totally be smashed if women needed porn like men think they need it to cope... give me a break..
like a sports event... so typical.. it seems you are only wanting to justify to us women why you think it is acceptable. to look at a woman to lust over her is the same as having an affair. I hope one day women will value there bodies more and leave men hanging out to dry.. sad for women who feel they dont have enough respect for themselves to keep in undercover as they say.. moral decay is the worse in all history books.. I really thought I was going to get a real honest opinion on a weaknesses or a disablity or mental issue that men may have.. Its called controlling ones actions.
We as women are suppose to just accept it.. NOT. I know my comment wont get the top vote but in the world I dont exspect much...oh yes.. and there are more men who are not interested in pleasing there women because with porn you dont have to worry about anyone else but yourself.. Get it..
YOurself... narcasistic... dont you think..

Re: Why guys look at porn

Annie Mossey — Fri, 24 Jun 2011 03:28:48 -0000

Hmm. I think you just helped me to prove my point: First, you defend men saying (in a nutshell) that it's just what men do, then you confess that you don't want to look at porn because you don't want to further hurt your girlfriend with it.

As a close guy friend of mine said to me once: "It's natural for guys to no this, but alas, it doesn't make it right considering how much DAMAGE they can do to a woman's self esteem and to a relationship."

Since you, Gregory, don't want to hurt your woman, and are trying to not look at porn anymore, I have a lot of respect for you. Most other guys would selfishly continue to do what HURTS their woman on such a deep, personal level. I also *commend* you for trying. It shows you really do love her. :-)

Perhaps in time she will see that you truly love her and are committed to her, and she will be more understanding of you, and WANT to have sex with you without worrying about anything, and all will be truly great between you.

Good luck. :-)

Re: Why guys look at porn

Gregory — Thu, 23 Jun 2011 21:59:57 -0000

annie your not going to find that Rare Gem unless its a MONK....if your a man or boy in AMERICA...sex is everywhere in commericals about fragrances...in eating a hamburger (hardees)....if you try and search for that man...then you'll be single for the rest of your life...you'll never understand just like we'll never understand you all...Even my gay neighbor has confessed to watching gay porn...i'm sorry annie but thats life....I used to be addicted to looking but i've got control on it now...its kinda like when i was younger there was a few girls i didn't want to get to know i just wanted sex from them and everytime after the fire works...i regreted what I had done...not because they were unattractive but because I only looked at them and thought sex...i appologize for being selfish...and i'm past it... I don't know where I'm going with this....but I love my girlfriend and want to marry her and at first she was ok with porn but now she's upset...the funny thing is the last two times I masterbated to porn (many weeks apart) she has walked in on me and it turned into huge fights....this morning she said do you want to do it and i said yeah...then she said well were not going to because you didn't want to last time....but after the fight she said she only wanted me to beg for it.... I'll never understand the way she thinks.... but what i can say is that I love her too much to lose her so i don't wnat to look at porn anymore...but i'm proud because i used to look at porn pretty much everyday...and now i havn't in a long time except for today when i got busted...she's at work feeling real insecure....i fucked up....but I couldn't talk my way out because...we think differently and we'll never be on the same level unless your gay...or dating a tranny

Re: Why guys look at porn

hitmeoverthehead — Sat, 21 May 2011 07:56:01 -0000

I know a married guy who not only frequents porn sites but archives porn images on the computer. I think he has about 5000+ photos of explicit photos of female body parts stored. is that sick?

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Re: Why guys look at porn

Annie — Tue, 25 Jan 2011 23:10:30 -0000

Now that some other ladies have commented on here, perhaps men can further see why it hurts women so much when you look at porn --and more importantly-- LIE about it.

Men are blatantly contradicting themselves when they say they "don't need it/would never lie about it/would rather have sex with their woman", etc (same old lies, really) and yet do exactly the opposite. Mens' ACTIONS on the matter really do show women that men DO prefer the porn and are willing to continue lying about it/hiding it. It's even worse when they're willing to look at it when their women are there at HOME WITH THEM, thinking they're doing something else.

LOL... and then men have the nerve to wonder why women get so upset? Hellooooo???

Re: Why guys look at porn

Ashley — Tue, 25 Jan 2011 22:46:12 -0000

i totally agree with you! im younge still and im living with my bf and when i looked on his phone i saw it and it hurt me so bad! i didnt even want to look at him!

Re: Why guys look at porn

Ashley — Tue, 25 Jan 2011 22:41:22 -0000

I recently caught my boyfriend looking at it on his phone im assuming so he doesnt get viruses, i just still dont understand cuz he tells me all the time how amazing i look and how our sex life is fine. We have sex every day so it couldnt be to get his needs. I just hate the fact he looks at other girls like that. It makes me feel like im not good enough to look at and get excited about! it sucks!

Re: Why guys look at porn

Claire Johnston — Mon, 25 Oct 2010 10:14:59 -0000

So how come i say to my man he can look at porn ill watch it with him, and we do some kinky stuff in the bedroom yet he still hides it from me and as soon as i leave the room hes looking at porn then says "sorry ill not do it again"??(ha like we believe that) from a guys point of view, explain? :)

Re: Why guys look at porn

saraanne89 — Thu, 13 May 2010 14:10:47 -0000

I 97% of the time have sex with my fiance when he wants to. I've never minded if he looked at porn and I've told him that yet he said he doesn't look at porn or masterbate that much. I've told him I don't mind a million times and even asked because I told him it turned me on which I thought it did. I woke up early one morning and before he left for work he had the computer room door shut and something shoved underneath it. I pushed it open and saw him looking at porn. He deleted his internet history and even has a password for his computer that he's told me a million times but its a bunch of numbers and he knows for a face I can't ever remember it and he won't tell me when I have something to write with. I don't mind I didn't think he had anything to hide and he knows it wasn't a big deal to me. Do you have any clue why he would go through all this trouble just to look at porn? Why would he lie to me when I said I didn't mind?

Re: Why guys look at porn

GeekyFemme — Thu, 06 May 2010 02:10:15 -0000

I am a young woman and I look at porn for nearly the same reasons as men do. It's not personal, it's about the fantasy and not a reality. We shouldn't lie about our porn usage to our significant others, yes; but on the flip side we shouldn't have to feel guilty about masturbating to porn either!

I admit, I feel inadequate when I mentally compare myself to a female porn star. And I can understand why other people, especially women, get their feelings hurt over their boyfriends watching porn. But then I remember that these people bleach their asshole and wax all the hair and invest the time and money and implants to look like they do. That's part of the fantasy, and if we allow our egos/feelings to get hurt over fantastical comparisons, what does that say about us? That's like comparing yourself to Batman or Robin. They are "real" people with no "super powers" but they still kick ass and look good doing it. Why? Because, they are in a fantasy world, similar to Jenna Jameson but with different gadgets and toys. ;)

So, I'm saying for ladies like me. Porn is recreational, fantastical, and not there to personally offend my significant other. It's there so I can have an orgasm, escape from reality, and have a little self loving time with a visual aid.

Re: Why guys look at porn

Annie1306 — Tue, 04 May 2010 17:30:54 -0000

I hear ya, Skid. And yes, we ARE wired differently so there truly does seem to be no point in discussing all of the differences about it. I only gave the different, female point of view, just as you gave the male point of view.

You couldn't have said it better: "Asking a man to take porn personally is akin to asking a women not to. It's just not gonna happen."

But, at any rate, hopefully the info in your article and my response will help both sexes to see the subject from both male and female point of view.

BTW, thank you for the compliment on my ranting...er, writing. :-D

Also, thanks for the link to the CNN article; I've read this same article before. And while I know that men are quite simply biologically wired to think very differently about sex, it still doesn't make the problem go away for us ladies because of how we, too are wired.

For me, personally, it all boils down to communication, acceptance, faithfulness and honesty, and then trust. If a couple has healthy communication skills and trust based on loving honesty, then it shouldn't be a problem whether the guy watches it or refrains from it. It's the HIDING that causes the problem itself, because it IS an act of dishonesty on a VERY personal level.

If only the brains of the sexes weren't wired so damn differently!!!! :-D

Re: Why guys look at porn

Skid Vis — Tue, 04 May 2010 08:32:15 -0000

Well, Annie
Thanks for the response. You're a damn fine writer, but alas, like most women, you completely skipped right past the science of the article and turned into yet another him vs. her argument.

Asking a man to take porn personally is akin to asking a women not to. It's just not gonna happen.

And yes, men hide it.. not because they feel it's a horrible betrayal to the women they love, but just because they don't feel like listening to another 1,000 word lecture.

It is science, it is genetics, it is nature. The woman's emotional brain center is just way bigger than a man's.

Here's a nice CNN article on the topic, by a woman, even!
http://goo.gl/Z9Ck

Re: Why guys look at porn

ginger1971 — Tue, 04 May 2010 03:41:10 -0000

Kudos to your Post Annie, 100% agreed!

Re: Why guys look at porn

Annie1306 — Tue, 04 May 2010 02:55:11 -0000

Thanks for the male point of view on all of this. Although it is still somewhat upsetting, it is refreshing to see some honesty on the subject. But, perhaps if men look at it from a woman’s point of view, they won’t get so upset about why women hate it so much when men look at porn.

Men, please have patience as you read all of this.

In a nutshell, the bottom line is that when men *secretly* look at porn, they *ARE* looking at porn for a VERY specific purpose: to get their rocks off WITHOUT their significant other. It does not matter that it’s “nothing personal”, because that’s exactly what they are doing: getting their rocks off with SOMEONE ELSE, etc.

Yes, guys: On paper, video or your imagination, they are still OTHER WOMEN that you are getting off to.

So, why do you guys (who supposedly love your woman) feel the need to “HIDE” what you do if it is ACTUALLY "nothing personal" or even "harmless" or just "something guys do"? After all, those who have nothing to hide, HIDE NOTHING. The fact that you feel the need to hide it PROVES that you ARE doing something WRONG; something that can --not only-- hurt the woman you love on a VERY personal level, but can also play a significant part in truly RUINING the relationship.

Now, what's the reason for you to "need" porn, or that "release" if you already have a woman who DOES give you sex regularly? There ARE women who DO love sex with our guy and hardly ever say no. If your woman does says “no” a little TOO often, then chances ARE that it is something YOU’VE done that is the reason she’s rejecting sex with you. Unlike men, women view sex as something EMOTIONAL as well as physical. It takes quite a bit more for us to WANT to have sex than for guys. So, if she's upset enough about something you've done, you can hardly expect her to forget it and hop in the sack. Or, perhaps she has a legitimate reason for not wanting sex at the time of your asking; something on her mind that would make ANYONE not feel like having sex.

And contrary to popular belief, NOT all women use sex as a manipulative means to get something in return, or as a weapon of any kind. That sort of behavior is usually done by a woman who is either REALLY pissed off at you (and even then, that’s NO excuse), or is generally just NOT a good or loving woman in the first place. As for those of us who are truly HAPPY with our guy, we GENUINELY enjoy sex regularly, and are oftentimes the INITIATOR of sex with our guy.

If you truly feel that you have done nothing to deserve her sexual rejections, then you two NEED to talk it out. When two people TRULY DO love each other, then (other than medical reasons) there should be NO REASON for you to NOT have an active and regular sex life together. Either way, the lack of a sex life with your woman is NO EXCUSE for you to seek "release" with "visuals" of other women behind her back.

Moving right along, from a woman's point of view, for guys to secretly look at/masturbate to any form of porn it is a truly SELFISH act. Especially if you do so ALREADY KNOWING that it would HURT us in ANY way. Most of you who have been caught doing so promise to never do so again, only to go right back to it as soon as the opportunity presents itself, and then you do so in an even more deceitful way than last time.

And as you continue to "enjoy" the sexual thrills of other women, whatever conscience you MIGHT have, easily and immediately forgets the tears and HURT that you, YOURSELVES have caused your woman. You forget the VERY REAL DAMAGE to your woman's self esteem, because you are too selfishly engrossed with the thought of getting off to OTHER women.

In short: it MEANS SO MUCH to you that you’ll FIGHT FOR that porn DESPITE the argument(s) you've had about it with your woman before. And when we catch you at it yet AGAIN, it makes us feel THAT MUCH WORSE: less loved, less desired, and our feelings on the subject (and ACT) COMPLETELY DISREGARDED. In some cases, it can make us want to leave you altogether, feeling that you can and will never truly be faithful to us on all levels that you have PROMISED to be; you are sending us the message that you DO NOT CARE about us enough to keep a promise that is so DEEPLY personal between us two.

Be truly HONEST with yourselves, guys:
WHY would a woman WANT to have sex, or even BE with you when she feels like you prefer porn/other women over her? When you go out of your way to be DECEITFUL about looking at and especially *MASTURBATING* to OTHER women, what MESSAGE would that give your woman?

Regardless of your hollow (yes, HOLLOW) argument that it’s “nothing personal”, "normal for guys", etc., in the eyes of the woman you “love”, it really DOES look an awful lot like you don't love or desire her ENOUGH to seek ONLY her for something as INTIMATE as SEX. Otherwise, it would be YOUR WOMAN that you seek out for this “release”, rather than those “visuals”; it would be your woman that you would masturbate to if she wasn't able to have sex with you at that time of "need".

So..... if guys “need” those “visuals” that badly, then WHY commit yourselves to ONE woman at all? Why not just have the freedom to mentally (or personally) screw anyone you want? If you’re going to commit yourselves to a woman you “love”, then do so with ALL that you are. After all, you would want the SAME level of faithfulness from HER, wouldn’t you?

As for those few men who don't look at porn: I'm sure they have their own personal reasons for it, but to those who TRULY don't look at it because you genuinely love your woman, I HAVE NOTHING BUT THE DEEPEST RESPECT FOR YOU. I sincerely hope that she is a woman wonderful enough to deserve your loyalty, and that you are truly VERY happy together. You are a RARE GEM, and a man to be admired. :-D